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Sunday, June 10, 2012

Reality Check: India


India is a land of complexities – with more people joining the working age population every month. But this was to be expected - at least to some extent – back in 1947, when India was born – many critics highlighted the issues of population and the widespread poverty. Neither of those revolutionary nationalist policies addressed these issues in the short run, but they permanently altered the landscape of imagined possibilities in which the shape of the future was forged – long run vision was considered supreme. The pioneering effort of then policy makers to convert a theoretical weakness into a structured strength is commendable – advent of clear focus for educational excellence in the form of IITs, non-polarized approach in regard to foreign policy, infrastructure development for basic necessities. 

There are always two sides to a story – India, emerging from bitter experiences of the past followed a socialist model to ensure national interests, up until 1990s when Indian economy hit rock-bottom with reserves enough to cater for 17 days and not beyond. The growth rate up until then was marginal and reflected the lack of short run objectives of then policy makers – few ill informed scholars termed it as Hindu rate of growth. Indian Economy opened up in early 1990s – credit for which is with no sensible reason given to then finance minister alone and the real visionary, then prime minister was suitable forgotten. 

India grew through the last decade of 20th century at an improved pace – policies can be largely termed as confused capitalistic approaches, resulting from emergence of coalition politics. India lost her visionary leaders – few ill informed and loyal servants of high command (not necessarily democratically elected, but assumed to represent Indian interests so far) scaled up through the ranks to drive policy for the country. 

Similarly, social movements which played a leading role earlier to preserve the sanctity of any policy measure have lost their integrity through selfish leaders along with redefined politicking proficiencies of few dynamic national leaders. Early 1990s saw India consciously move from taking a socialistic approach to a pseudo dialectical materialist approach with gradually social movements losing their integrity because of few leaders with political ambitions – race, caste, gender, environment,  women rights have come to be few of the abused topics for personal gains.

Come 2000, India lost most of her intellectual sons/daughters because of brain drain – aided by intellectually retarded leaders who felt selfishness is a prerequisite for any policy decision. Unlike the revolutionaries before them, these leaders lived in a world of ignorance and arrogance. – And citizens were left to hope that things will change. Media with their commercial interests and sold souls supported leaders who did not think twice to hit under the belt – unfortunate Times     

The working class – general citizenry were motivated by promises made and broken - and this is what has mostly dominated the remainder of this century up until now. The policy paralysis and lack of any action aiding development, social movements fanning public anger along with advent of social tools for better communication exposed the usual ways of conducting political business – multiple scams were discovered, few “I am sorry, I have sold my soul” media houses and their up-until-then respected editors/journalists were exposed – few attempting a doctored peer review procedure to get over it. This sowed the seed, in comparison to the past – now Indians want answers. The working class as Karl Marx puts it has started the inter-class struggle. This will lead to a new class order. A more pro-active vision, drawing on a wider range of dreams, will begin to emerge, most distinctly, facebook generation's continuing struggle for democratic self-governance and new forms of organization will lead to ethical capitalism.
 
 If this nationwide revolutionary wave is to reshape how policy making process is structured in India over the course of decades, it will need to shift much more decisively into nurturing, developing, and working out the implications of a whole new set of dreams and aspirations that simply cannot fit within the confines of the pre-informed world and eliminate such channels which propagate and support any possibility otherwise.

Monday, May 21, 2012

Smile!

When I was a kid, they told me – there is no oil, if olives are not squeezed...No wine, if grapes are not pressed...No perfume, if flowers are not crushed...I was forced to think if nothing exists on its own. I was always curious to understand if every aspect of our living has a causal relation. 

I always felt we have something that needs no reason for taking shape – it is a gift bestowed on life. It is a gift that brings you comfort - when you are suffering or hurt; It is a celebration in the moments life provides and rears;  It is where love grows unconditionally – no matter what you do; It is  the priceless gift to smile – we all own it and it needs no causal effect. There are things which go beyond human comprehension – the beauty of life lies in the fact that not all actions have or need reasons.

Let us start our day with a smile – and look beyond the usual reasons we need to be happy again?

- Abhijith

Place: Hyderabad

Sunday, April 29, 2012

Dreams +ve


I want you to take a few moments to imagine something you really want to happen and then use your imagination to follow it through in your mind's eye. What is it you are dreaming about? Who is involved? How does it play out? Now let's think about the direction your imagination took. Did you focus on the positive aspects of your dream or did you end up thinking about the things that could go wrong?

If your imagination turned your dream into a disaster, let's think about why that happened. First off, I don't want you to be down on yourself. You might be surprised at how many of us are in the habit of imagining the worst as opposed to the best, unless our thoughts are directed differently.

It is my firm belief that the energy flows, where the attention goes and this is the key to getting positive results in any situation. When you can actually visualize exactly what it is that you want, you fuel the energy of your creation by seeing all the wonderful aspects of it coming into reality. You can see yourself experiencing your desire in detail, imagining the events, sights, smells, and feelings around it. And, if a negative thought creeps in, you can simply erase it, replacing it with thoughts of what you want to have happen instead.

By making a point to imagine on a regular basis the positive things you want to bring your way, you will draw wonderful things into your life with surprising frequency. Not only will you experience more success in your life, but you will also feel more confident and in charge of your own destiny!

Let your positive dreams take flight!

-         -  Abhijith Jayanthi


Place: Germany
Date: 27th March 2012

Friday, April 06, 2012

Free Soul or Fair Soul: Choose One

 

'Present Day Youth' has opened a can of worms -  trying to reconcile free soul with fair soul. Under influence from modern day social pressures, we have adopted practices which in the longer run could shut self learning unless we work to hold onto our inner consciousness. 

Critics, notably the fair-soul (read ethical learning) enthusiasts, say these trends send the wrong signal and would put the future generations on a slippery slope towards fencing off happiness/satisfaction rather than engaging them towards happiness. Like many internal battles, the dispute pits the interests of resource consuming attitudes against those of us who wish to seek self realization and exposes the limits of our ability to spread our own wings over the usual social influences to live by the rules of our own system rather than a crafted social influences based living pattern worldwide. 

In practice, each of us put an artificial appearance on ourselves and seek entry - our passport to social acceptance. If I were to address this issue as a liberal fair soul enthusiast, it is our own fault that we land up in such a situation with our mind battling to choose between being a free soul or a fair soul. I consider being a fair soul holds more promise than being a free soul - in the longer run, you do not tend to lose yourself and stay connected, content and satisfied...Nothing is hard to achieve, impossible to conquer - try it! Find yourself again! 

Place: Mumbai
Date: 6th April 2012

Sunday, April 01, 2012

Let Me Free...

Our inner souls are unbalanced or profligate or careless and cannot stop being so just by wanting to stop. Just as a man who is ill cannot become healthy just by wanting to – but that is a start. The unjust or profligate or careless got that way through situations/actions taken of their free choice.

It is absurd to say that one who acts unjustly does wish to be unjust (or profligate, when it is a case of his doing profligate acts). If a man acts, not in ignorance, that will make him unjust – voluntarily so. For the latter, there is no way out – but for former, everyone deserves to be let free, to connect back with selves.

Let me free…

Place: Munich, Germany
Date: 30 March 2012

Sunday, March 04, 2012

ॐ नम: शिवाय:

 

I was 14 years old on the threshold of my womanhood when our eyes met for the first time. He was sitting on the dais fixed in the corner of the alleyway 50 yards away from my house. I looked at him coyly and shyly from the corner of my eye in a beautiful cool day in New Delhi. I was completely taken over by his masculine slender body. In no time, I discovered that he is a ladies’ man and in fact every woman admired him as much as I did. That was the time, our relationship first established.  

Next week, when I was coming back from school my friend informed me that a party has been organized and dances will be performed in the evening.  I often got excited about the events that took place in the community centre. I rushed back home, fixed myself, got dressed and left. My friend ‘G’ and I walked together to the centre and there was this teeth clenching, nail gnawing moment. Yes, I spotted him again - the Man who captured my attention and made a special space in the middle of my heart. I was curious to know more about him.

G and I walked in, found a pew in the back of the row where hundreds of men and women gathered to see special dances performed by Children. He and I still glaring at each other smiled and I pretended not to pay much attention to him. I didn’t want to be seen by aunties who also secretly worshipped his slender body and masculine charm. He was indeed particularly famous amongst women. No, not only his body was astounding, he was also a remarkable dancer. He did not fit into your usual social norms and socially constructed values. He was a man ahead of his time.

He held gatherings and parties in cemeteries, stayed up till late and often remained intoxicated on pure grass and wine. Everyone was invited to his merrymaking adventures. People tagged along whenever they could. He had his nose and ears pierced, and wore band around his neck and wrist. How cool I thought. While he enjoyed being part of social scenes, you would also notice him wandering around all by himself living a desolate life. There was this rebel, an eccentric and unconventional man right in my back yard. How did I remain so oblivious of his existence and his explorations?

The event finished, I took the courage together, went up to him and asked if we could meet privately. With his peaceful smile, he communicated ‘yes’. Wow, I thought. “He looks fairly young, perhaps in his mid 30s, hey?” G pronounced. But that did not bother me. I was excited about the prospects of meeting him again. I wistfully waited for the dusk to fall.

We met the next day in the same alleyway where we first caught each other’s attention. There he was sitting and waiting for me. It was dark and late. I only had 10 mins to speak to him and didn’t want to be seen alone in the dark standing in an alleyway. He was sitting on the same dais as before. He looked calm and eccentric. I told him much about my troublesome life at school like home work, how difficult was it to wake up and go to school in the morning. He advanced an admonished smile and comforted me. He finally glanced certainty and offered to support me with my homework.

I remember going home with a different feeling altogether. This man had captured me. I am seized by his entirety and his presence in my life. We carried on meeting. The never ending rendezvous involved me always talking of course and He patiently listened and smiled.  We both learnt many things about each other. I found out that not only was he a charmer, he was also a big softy. He believed in expressing his emotions gently and calmly unlike many men who are uncomfortable about being effeminate. He, on the other hand, was at peace with both his masculine and feminine characteristics.  So good to be true.

Imagine a strong man with a heart of gold. “No wonder he has many female admirers”, I thought to myself.

I also found out about the vibrant woman, no less than a deity, sitting next to him. She was one of the major influences in His life. She never stopped herself of speaking her mind and in fact once she was in such a rage, she went on the frontline to express her prowess as a feminist.

There were influences of masculinity, femininity and feminism right before me who had influenced me big time during my teen years, and have kept on influencing me. 

Lord Shiva - symbol of Masculinity and Femininity musings on the eve of Maha Shivaratri.

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This is a piece written by a friend of mine, Dr. Ritu Mahendru. It is an interesting way to look at ourselves and our relations. It is important that we understand the duality in our existence and how every aspect of our life revolves around a complex emotion - Trust.  There is more to this piece, it speaks of how we tend to transfer our fears onto someone we trust and seek a happy existence. We are on our own, and yet every one of us is a piece of the larger jigsaw puzzle – we need to understand this. I found it as an interesting read, and wanted to share it with all of you. You may find the original piece here.

For the uninitiated, Lord Shiva is a Hindu Deity and is the destroyer God or transformer among the Trimurti, the Hindu Trinity of the primary aspects of the Divine. Shiva is a yogi who has notice of everything that happens in the world and is the main aspect of life according to Hindu Religion.

Wednesday, February 15, 2012

Love...

fáilte grá!

They say love is an ugly business  - one is never happy, yet one never gets tired of it. It has come to be a routine exercise for everyone of us following the “living in the moment” method.  This speaks of a trait, to be fully present and aware of oneself and one’s needs / desires and be selfish about it – definition of present day love. It speaks of a state which seeks no observation beyond necessary, unwarranted appreciation, patience, quiet, ability to turn off the clock and put away the calendar and never expect anything in return for any love showered.

While most of us might be of the view, that we do not live in such times –  and that we truly love people in our lives. In theory, being in a relation involves learning how to pay attention, and the process of getting there is far easier than one might think. There are a few simple things one needs to do right to stay in the present and pay attention to your partner, and be of the opinion that you are in love and really care for him/her.  

If you wish to see if what you perceive as love is love indeed – there is a simple method. Close your eyes and let the sounds around you filter through you and notice the underlying noises that you may have been tuning out. Next, open your eyes and notice the colors and sights around you in this same subtle, attentive way. You may be surprised at how much you actually notice about your internal and external presence. If you try this, you will probably find that “paying attention” will take on a whole new meaning, and it will be a very nice one at that. If being in a relation puts you through a similar experience – emotionally or physically, then it is not love but just an emotional arrangement you are clinging onto. 

I hope that you can take some time this week to understand love – and not exist in relation thinking it is love. I feel sure that it will change your experience in “now” time and that's not a bad goal for starters.

Enjoy!

-         -  Abhijith Jayanthi
  Dublin, 2007